Jim grew up in New York in a family that looked perfect from the outside but which was fractured inside by alcoholism and self-medicated mental illness. Each person played their role and Jim became finely attuned to his mother's moods. Describing himself as a parentified child, skilled in many ways but out of touch with his own feelings, Jim forged ahead professionally, married and brought up a child, but took into his new family a perfectionism that made life difficult for himself and others. Eventually he found Al-Anon which helped him to change his perspective, improving all of his relationships. Later he joined AA when his drinking became a problem.

If you think that Al-Anon  could help you cope with someone else’s problem drinking then you can phone 1300 252 666 or go to their website al-anon.org.au

If you would like more information about Alcoholics Anonymous, they can be contacted on 1300 222 222 or go online at aa.org.au

The Living Free show may involve discussion of topics such as suicide, mental illness, self-harm and family violence. Please practise self-care and care of others when listening.